The probate process in many states can be complicated and stressful for the families of individuals who have recently passed. Thankfully, a skilled estate planning attorney can do much to help individuals and families avoid these headaches, including setting up trusts to keep some assets out of probate and drafting clear wills and other beneficiary designations. Still, many individuals do not have an estate plan or fail to have an updated and comprehensive estate plan. Unfortunately, this lack of foresight can enable disputes, even if you believe your assets to be clearly designated. Even families that get along harmoniously can act out of character in the presence of grief and finances.
According to a recent article, these family disputes are unfortunately all too common. An adult child of divorced parents recently posted to a message board that their father is ill and would likely pass soon. The adult child’s mother, who divorced from the child’s father over 20 years ago, when the child was just a teenager, has told the child she believes she is owed a stake in her ex-husband’s assets. The child stands to inherit enough money to help purchase a home, but the mother is asking for a piece of the inheritance because she asserts she did not receive enough money in the separation agreement.
Fortunately, divorce settlements are difficult to reopen in the United Kingdom, where the writer is located. And if their father has a well-drafted and clear last will and testament and estate plan, it is unlikely the mother’s claim holds water. This story, however, goes to show one of many ways families can squabble over inheritances when the time comes.